I’ve had some real “fire cracker explodes in your hand” kind of days. You know those days when you take a chance and it back fires in your face.
The old Karl (before Work Happy Now) usually got all depressed and sulked for days on end when I had a lousy day. I now practice being happy at work. I don't put up with a lousy day any longer.
I’ve learned how to let the pain go and move on.
I was stuck working on some reports. I couldn’t get the data to match up and I was freaking out. My hands were sweating, I was feeling hot flashes from my anger, and I was unable to focus. My day kept getting worse and worse. I got a phone call from a client who was in desperate need of help.
How could I help when I was freaking out myself? I told her that I would call her back in 20 minutes.
I decided to step outside and sprint down the block (well nowadays with my old man legs it’s more like a fast jog) until I ran out of breath. It was a lousy day multiplied by 7. It was some kind of shit storm that came out of nowhere.
When I got back inside I called the client back, gave her two good options and then I felt this calm come over me.
That phone call took the stress off of me and made me focus on someone else.
It was like God handed me a key to my own brain. I’ve actually known this trick for a long time, but it never fully registered. I have a good feeling that I’ll forget again and I’ll need to go for a sprint again, but that's just who I am.
By shifting my focus on to helping this client, I got out of my own emotional shit storm. It was beautiful.
I know that I teach about happiness and should have 10 tools at my disposal at any given time, but for some reason I couldn’t let go until I called my client back.
Turn the Focus Outward
Next time you are caught in a shit storm, stop whatever you are doing, sprint 100 yards and then help someone else with their problem.
When you get back to your own problem, you’ll have a clear mind and a relaxed heart.
What do you do when you are having a lousy day?
Do you marinate in it or do you find a way to turn it around?
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